This week was beyond interesting when looking at it from my prespective. Summer has finally started, terraces are filled up with people, and it is game time! Fast are the only that eat, and thats just the way the cookie crumbles..
This week I'm going to "collect" smiles and start up the season of summer-loving!
Oih, how shallow of me, but I like the challenge!
sunnuntai 27. toukokuuta 2012
I
Hei.
The quality of my life has been pretty damn good for the past three months. Before it was not.
I decided to change my whole attitude towards life; I started to love and accept myself as a person who I am, I got to do things that i actually seriously love and give me adrenaline kicks in and out all the time, I started to spend time more on the things that actually matters to me. So basically, I chose the way that not many people seem to be ready to walk: I wanted to get to know who I am and what I want, and not escape the reality as i did for a long long time. Done and done.
Life is very very simple. Eat, sleep, drink, see your friends, do sports, work, and most of all: do what you love, and do it often. How come people don’t then do what they actually really really want to? There seems to be a certain path in our society, that everyone is forced to follow. Can you actually be happy then if you live for someone else all the time, and not for yourself? I don't think you can.
Live for yourself, and not through the others. Tell yourself how fabulous you are, and accept the fact that you don’t need someone( a guy) to make you a better person, or to give you more confidence. Of course you need your family and friends, but especially you need YOURSELF. Be there, do that, LIVE. Everything is possible for you, once you accept yourself as a person who you are.
The quality of my life has been pretty damn good for the past three months. Before it was not.
I decided to change my whole attitude towards life; I started to love and accept myself as a person who I am, I got to do things that i actually seriously love and give me adrenaline kicks in and out all the time, I started to spend time more on the things that actually matters to me. So basically, I chose the way that not many people seem to be ready to walk: I wanted to get to know who I am and what I want, and not escape the reality as i did for a long long time. Done and done.
Life is very very simple. Eat, sleep, drink, see your friends, do sports, work, and most of all: do what you love, and do it often. How come people don’t then do what they actually really really want to? There seems to be a certain path in our society, that everyone is forced to follow. Can you actually be happy then if you live for someone else all the time, and not for yourself? I don't think you can.
Live for yourself, and not through the others. Tell yourself how fabulous you are, and accept the fact that you don’t need someone( a guy) to make you a better person, or to give you more confidence. Of course you need your family and friends, but especially you need YOURSELF. Be there, do that, LIVE. Everything is possible for you, once you accept yourself as a person who you are.
torstai 17. toukokuuta 2012
Business Time
I'm not quite sure what i want to write about today, but i still had the feeling that i should.
My mind map goes around every little experience and detail that i have had regarding single-hood, relationships, the thrill of new and the comfort of something old. For most part i feel that many young people enjoy being in control of themselves, and being able to choose whatever they feel like or whatever they want, and i'm taking advantage of those very rights at the moment (of course when talking about relationships and such).
I can't deny that i don't feel the need to belong in somebody's arms once in a while, when i find myself next to some half strange man who screws me over with two lousy-lazy minutes, and calls it "done" by leaving to see his friends, after what he believes has been "better than one minute in heaven"(please see: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGOohBytKTU)..and trust me, nothing leaves your bed colder than that. BUT what-the-hell..these sons-of-biches will never end up as anything else as our bad mistakes that we shall learn from!
Anyhow, strangely enough the knowledge of not being held down, by those same arms that could offer a nice warm cuddle, gives me some sort of comfort as well...at least at this point in life.
Weekend shall start soon, and again!
My mind map goes around every little experience and detail that i have had regarding single-hood, relationships, the thrill of new and the comfort of something old. For most part i feel that many young people enjoy being in control of themselves, and being able to choose whatever they feel like or whatever they want, and i'm taking advantage of those very rights at the moment (of course when talking about relationships and such).
I can't deny that i don't feel the need to belong in somebody's arms once in a while, when i find myself next to some half strange man who screws me over with two lousy-lazy minutes, and calls it "done" by leaving to see his friends, after what he believes has been "better than one minute in heaven"(please see: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGOohBytKTU)..and trust me, nothing leaves your bed colder than that. BUT what-the-hell..these sons-of-biches will never end up as anything else as our bad mistakes that we shall learn from!
Anyhow, strangely enough the knowledge of not being held down, by those same arms that could offer a nice warm cuddle, gives me some sort of comfort as well...at least at this point in life.
Weekend shall start soon, and again!
sunnuntai 13. toukokuuta 2012
Date night
Yesterday was a special one in one single girls life! Yes, I went on a date, with one fine young lad.
This is how it went: a walk in the park, then we got comfortable on the couch, couldn't stop kissing me all over and then we had those long deep stares into each others eyes and that is when I knew his owner and I were meant to go further.
Rule no. 1
You can almost always count on men with cute dogs... I mean thats why they get them, to get us, so just go with it!
This is how it went: a walk in the park, then we got comfortable on the couch, couldn't stop kissing me all over and then we had those long deep stares into each others eyes and that is when I knew his owner and I were meant to go further.
Rule no. 1
You can almost always count on men with cute dogs... I mean thats why they get them, to get us, so just go with it!
perjantai 11. toukokuuta 2012
New Years Resolutions, J
It is time to go into the past, and search for a background for this never ending single-woman-sotry.
Today's note will be going into new years resolutions, and one important one I made for this year (2012). I promised to look good everyday I would leave my house.
This promise goes back to all the assholes, and the brainless bastards that have come on my way and taken a piece of me to where ever dirty dungeons they live in!!
So people, the main purpose of this resolution is: Look good, so that when you bump into these past years boyfriends and flings that didn't treat you with respect, they will see what they're missing out on! BOOM..
...AND when looking good, it is way easy to get some new waves moving.
Hasn't failed me once,
Cheers!!
maanantai 7. toukokuuta 2012
J-Day
So today, is my birthday!.. And I feel like I should never write about the joyful things of being single again, since it seems there are none at the moment!
I'm merely joking, obviously, but what can you do, when it's not a "good morning" from anyone, and even your roommate (who you have known for 18 years) forgets, you definitely start wondering about...well at least getting a dog!!
What is the balance from this glorious morning of mine?
-Breakfast, I made for myself..
-'How I Met Your Mother' episode that for some reason isn't airing till NEXT WEEK!!!!
-AND a rose on the living room table..that my roomy got from her EX.
I shall hope for an excellent weekend!
I'm merely joking, obviously, but what can you do, when it's not a "good morning" from anyone, and even your roommate (who you have known for 18 years) forgets, you definitely start wondering about...well at least getting a dog!!
What is the balance from this glorious morning of mine?
-Breakfast, I made for myself..
-'How I Met Your Mother' episode that for some reason isn't airing till NEXT WEEK!!!!
-AND a rose on the living room table..that my roomy got from her EX.
I shall hope for an excellent weekend!
Monday
Clearly, we can all understand the hard times of Monday!
After an awesome weekend parade of parties and bars, we have to start from the beginning. No morning kisses, or breakfast in bed for me, NO..
After an awesome weekend parade of parties and bars, we have to start from the beginning. No morning kisses, or breakfast in bed for me, NO..
Just a small sun lit room, and a bad hair do!
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